Book Clubs

Love books, love being social? Join or start a book club or reading group.

Before jumping in, ask yourself a few questions.
What is your goal for a book club?  To have lengthy discussion about books, to read or not read a book and get together and drink wine, to have a dinner with friends?    Your expectations don't have to be much, but all the members should know what he or she is getting into when joining.
How often will the club meet? Monthly, bimonthly, online check ins with facebook or some other online took.
Where will you meet?  Your home, the homes of your club members, a restaurant, a meeting room at a coffee shop or library?
How will you decide on the books?  Take turns hosting the book club and the person hosting selects the next book or suggests a couple and one is agreed upon, aalphabetical order, birthday order, or a club vote?


Not all of these questions need to be answered immediately and can change over time.



So how do you find a book club?  Meetup.com is a great website to find others with the same interests as you, this is a great site to find existing book clubs or start your own.  Your local library is a wonderful resource, not only can you find the books for your next meeting, reserve a meeting room, and many libraries sponsor readings and book discussions.

Who to start a book club with?  You can start a group with anyone that enjoys reading: coworkers, people with similar interests, friends, family members, facebook friends.

Types of book clubs: There are an endless amount of books out there and we each have our own taste. You may want to center you selections around a genre or general theme.  Here are some popular choices: chick lit, mystery, children's lit, read the book - watch the movie, best sellers, works by a certain author, online book clubs, autobiographies and biographies,




Great  you've started a book club!  Here are some general meeting ideas:
Theme dinners or treats for books;  drink coffee and eat sandwiches while discussing The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo by Stieg Larsson.
Encourage members to come with meetings with at least 2 questions. Good questions to start with: Why did the author select that title, what would you have named it? What was your favorite passage?
Look up the book's publisher's webpage, many of them will have guides for their books.
Nominate a time keeper to keep the meeting on track and on point; only 5 minutes of discussion per question. 
Do an activity related to the book; try writing your own diary while reading Bridget Jones' Diary by Helen Fielding.
Decide a new book at the end of the meeting, and meeting place.
Create a team name for your club: perhaps The Marga-readers! or Books and Booze, Killer Books, etc
Create a facebook group for  your memebers to communicate about your progress while reading and to set up future meetings and reminders for meetings.


I'd love to hear all about  your book club experinces.  Any good books you could recommend?  Have  you done any fun events for a meeting?  Does your group have theme?  Leave a comment!  Thanks :)

Helpful links:
http://www.readinggroupchoices.com/

Meetup.com
http://www.kcls.org/booksandreading/bookclub_resources.cfm

What is Pintrest?

Pintrest has been popping up everywhere!
I got an invitation to join so I did. And I didn't get it. I didn't get Facebook either, but it didn't take long understand. Same with Pintrest. Once you start following a few friends/companies/awesome people it all starts to make sense.

So here's how it works... You create boards of things that interest you. Some boards I have are: crafty goodness, food stuff, and garden stuff. You find items to pin on your board in 3 ways.
1. Your friends will post pictures and you can repin them.
2. You can search photos on Pintrest and repin them.
3. You can find your own pictures anywhere on the Internet and Pin them with the PIN IT button provided by Pintrest. You add the button into your favorites so anytime you see a picture you click it and it creates a pop up to create a new pin.

Once you log on, you will see all the pins from the people you are following. Across the top of the page you can search for people or topics.
Then the red Pintrest link to bring you back to your Pintrest home page. Then towards the right an Add+ link. Click on it to add a pin, upload a pin or create a new board.
Click ABOUT, get more info about Pintrest, find the Pin it button.
The last link will be your name/small photo to view your profile. This is where you can invite friends and follow people you know already on Pintrest.

Under that bar there is another bar still at the top of the page. You can view Pinner that follow you, view everything (categories and topics, great for special interests), videos, popular, and gifts (search for gifts, a drop down menu with $ ranges).

On the left bar you can see your activity. It will show if you followers repinned one of your pins, new people that are following you.

Finally, the Pins! You can repin from any of boards you see. You can write captions under the pinned pictures. You can 'heart' others pins.

Hope I made you less confused and not more confused. You may want to toggle between reading this and Pintrest.com. I love finding new craft ideas, recipes, pretty things, and helpful hints to make life easier.

I'm Back, With a Goal

So I haven't wrote in a very long time, almost a year! Yikes!

A friend of my started the Eastside Happiness Project Group on Facebook. I really didn't know what it was, but because my friend started it, I wanted to support her. I joined her facebook group. She started posting meetings, I couldn't make the first few. I was able to make the third, mostly I went to have coffee with my friend and support her in group.

I arrived at the meeting as I was pleasantly surprised I was not the only one that showed up! I learned a lot, like The Happiness Project is actually a book! The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin. http://www.amazon.com/Happiness-Project-Morning-Aristotle-Generally/dp/006158326X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1331141090&sr=8-1
After getting over the shame of not even knowing why I was at the meeting, it was wonderful meeting new women in a small coffee shop. We talked about the book and what steps we have been taking to bring more happiness into our lives. We set goals for our next meeting (mine was to read the book!).

My friend updated our facebook group with our goals and we post progress reports through out the month. It has been a great experience to connect with others, it doesn't take much time, and I feel like I'm getting my life a bit more organized and hopefully being less of a jerk along the way.

The book is split into months, each month with a topic to focus on. This makes the book very easy to read and allows for skipping, picking and choosing. The book is a great resource as well as the author's blog: http://www.happiness-project.com/
and online toolkit: http://www.happinessprojecttoolbox.com/

So what have I been doing on my own Happiness Journey??
Good question, making a lot of lists! I work really well off lists.
To Do Lists: Plant some herbs, change my phone plan, organize my bookshelf, change my contacts out, make a checklist board.
Ongoing Stuff To Do: Work on 3 existing quilts, write on my blog, fold and put laundry away right away, clean out fridge once a week, create an Excel sheet for my Kiva loans.
I broke up these To Do's into daily (keep shirts right side out at all times), weekly(clean out fridge), monthly (sort and organize mail), and yearly (sell at a craft show) and put them on a chart. I thought of several ideas: a chalk board, dry erase board, a notebook I could carry around, an iPhone app, or some online website. In the end I made something that will work for me. I bought a small poster frame, 4 different colors of scrap booking paper, some letter stickers, and dry erase markers. I spent just under $15. I taped the paper into quadrants and put stickers on for day, week, month, year and put it back in the frame. Then wrote my goals on the glass with dry erase markers. I can easily erase, check or put a line though my list items! I have gotten through quite a lot of my list. Here are a few pictures of my board.




Our next meeting is this Sunday, I'm excited to share in the conversation! One of my goals is to write on my blog at least once a month, so stay tuned...
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